A Baby Boy Was Born

Adam Naqib ::: Weight: 2.8kg ::: Length: 52cm

Alhamdulillah. Keep repeating it ever since I found out I was preggy till I give birth to a healthy baby boy, Adam Naqib. Naqib means leader. He was born here at Putra Medical Centre, Sg. Buloh on 9 October 2012 at 9.35 am by c-szer. 

Yes. It was d same exact date dat me & hubby become husband & wife 2yrs ago. Miracle isn't it. Exactly 2yrs! Again..alhamdulillah..tq Allah. So next yr ble celeb8 our 3rd yr anniversary with Adam's burfday ;)

Counting Days

I'm already 39 weeks preggy but still no sign of me giving me birth..huhu..still counting days for d arrival of my precious lil' baby. Raye pun dh over..didn't even post anything bout dat. Ble je on9 but my laziness had overrule. So wishing all muslim belated hari raya & maaf zahir batin ;)

Since 36 weeks, I started staying with my hubby at KKB till this day. Miss my family & home so much. Wish I could juz stay with them but i have no say. Hubby wanted me to stay with him till I give birth & then continue until my confinement is over. Whether I like it or not..I have to obey to him kn..dosa nnti klau x follow. Anyway it's easier if i stay here. At least there's someone to take care of me eventhough at times boring sgt duk cni. I guess sometimes u juz got to sacrifice to gain something.

3 Days to Ramadhan al-Mubarak

Ramadhan is coming! My 1st time preggy during this blessed month. I really hope dat I can complete fasting 30 days without leaving any day behind..insyaAllah..aminnn..

Utk ksempatan ini, I would like to apologize to my hubby, family, in laws and frenz for any wrong doing dat I did. Also to my readers (if I still have any), I'm sorry if any of my writing in this blog may hurt ur feelings. May we all strive to do more good deeds throughout this month ;)

My Lil' Bro Is Married?!

I juz can't believe dat my brother decided to get married dis yr. Not juz me but d whole family. More surprising he proposed to someone dat he had only known for less than a month! Dat was fast..hehe..klau dh jodoh tu x ke mane. Congratz Dr Dot & Asfiya!

1 JUNE 2012: No sign of panic but deep down nobody knows ;p

2 JUNE 2012: Bride's reception at Bukit Jelutong

24 JUNE 2012: Our side at Dewan Warisan Kompleks Warga Emas

He kept saying dat he wanted to focus on collecting money first before he settle down and his target age was 30. I guess d saying 'kita mrancang, Allah yg menentukan' is so true. It's all started when they were introduced by my brother's fren who is also the girl's brother-in-law and their journey continues from there ;)

I'm Pregnant!

Alhamdulillah..after more than a yr, i'm finally pregnant! Day & nite I wish dat this would happen. I even decided to quit my job for this dream to come true. Of course many didn't agree on my decision but so what..it's my life..family is much more important than anything else. Tq Allah for answering my prayers and my hubby for supporting me all d way through ups and downs of our marriage. For this miracle to happen, both hubby & wifey play important roles and of course lots of sacrifices. 

No matter what people say..we must alwiz stick together especially mulut2 jht nie dat keep asking us..'r u pregnant yet? r u pregnant yet?' Huh! So annoying! Kite org duk jauh ok..we're not living in d same house..of course la difficult ckit. Married couple yg duk serumah pun still having a hard time after so many yrs..nie lg us yg only meet once a week and at times once a month!

There's one guy & FYI he's only a driver even questioned why am I not pregnant yet. WTH?! Rezki anak is Allah's doing ok..why must u questioned something like dat?? Like death..no one knows for sure when will they die. One of them lg la..she's not even married! Why dun u find urself a husband 1st rather than sibuk2 jage tepi kain org. Sadly even until now she's not married yet..hermmm..kesian..

Usually dis kind of thing family x ksh..others yg make things worse. What i meant by others includes sedare2 not juz frenz. Alhamdulillah my family and hubby's family didn't pressure me with all this nonsense.

Anyway my burfday was last Tuesday and I'm already 29 yrs old! Time flies for sure. One of my best burfday gift EVER is from my doctor at PPUM..a 4D scan of my baby! So grateful dat baby boo is healthy. Tq Allah..

Why so RUDE??

I don't get it why people can be so rude and have no respect towards others. What's ur problem anyway?! A few yrs back when there is a study shows dat Malaysian is d 3rd most rude people in d world..i could not believe it. How come such a peaceful country with multi-racial citizens falls in 3rd. I said to my father and he totally agreed with d study. I was shocked back then but now i 100% totally agree with him.

There's a lot of example dealing with rude people in Malaysia but let me share 2 situations dat recently happened to me. The 1st one is at KLIA. I juz had a rough flight and was still shaking fr d experience when a custom staff stop me while i was pushing my trolley heading to d exit. I dun really have problem with d others except for this one dark skin custom. She asked me questions regarding d kain dat i bought Vietnam and said dat i have to pay tax VERY RUDELY! Can't u asked nicely?? Is it so hard??? If u really desperately need dat money all u got to do is juz asked! I'm not as poor as u ok and fyi d money is not even urs. Maybe her life is so miserable dat she wanted to make my life as bad as hers. I'm in a bad mood dat nite bcoz of her smpai my fren yg keje custom gotta scolding fr me..huhu..sorry fren..

The 2nd situation happened today. Nowadays i dun have to go to Vietnam anymore to take my kain. The distributor will send me pictures of kain via email and i choose what i want. Few weeks later i will get my kain thru shipping. So i have to deal with Ocean Link in order for me to know further details on d whereabouts of my kain. I call them dis morning & their staff by d name of Dila is so rude to me. Nie lg satu behavior dat i don't understand. I'm doing business with u & dis is how u treat me?? Tau la nie bkan bapak ko punye business but respect ur customers la! X ble tnye elok2?!! I told her i dun have fax at home but she still told me to fax d invoice. X phm simple malay ke?? Our conversation after dat mmg i treat her rudely la kn. I even put down d phone before she could say anything. Then after lunch an indian staff fr d same company call..pompuan gak..asked me with a rude tone "nape x angkat telefon?". Woi! I'm outside d 1st time u call. I then answer back rudely "sy kat luar mane nk dgr!". Lpas aku dh bwat prangai br la nk baik2. Same goes with d custom above. Bole blah la with all ur shit!

I Quit!

I never thought i will finally say those words. Imagine dat i have been wanting to say I QUIT! At first i can take it eventho hard when my close fren decided to go to Sabah's branch to be with her family. The last straw dat breaks d camel's back came along when d top management gives me a hard time. They r many heads & different heads wants different result. Worse i'm d officer in charge for something i hate & not specialize in which is LAW! Yup..i was chosen to do a Rule dat will be place in an Act for d whole of Malaysia to use. Oh my..dat is so far fr my field. I have zero knowledge on dat tho people expect me to be expert in it. Lawyers at my office pun had a hard time in some of d act..what more me a statistician.

Besides work load, i also can't take it with all these drama at d office. Tau la klau work in d gov. Most of them have nothing else better to do then MENGUMPAT. When my mother told me about this, i never really expected this to be dat bad. There's 2-face people dat luv to talk bad behind ur back but a sweet talker when they're in front of u. Worst of d bunch is d backstabbers! Said dat they're my fren and alwiz had my back instead they're juz d same with d others dat talk shit bout me. I didn't do anything to them..being so nice & dats how they repay me juz bcoz of JEALOUSY?? Pathetic people..dat what they r. Seriously GET A LIFE!

Actually i'm ok with working there if i'm a permanent officer but since it's juz contract dat will be renewed every yr..i guess i juz let it go. No regrets. I should have juz do it long time ago. Is not worth especially when some PTDs have less work load but being paid more..so not fair. Well, at least i gain experience. Been there, done dat!

So now i'm a business woman. I decided when i found out dat my fren sells kain at d office and it was a big hit. Then i said to myself, why not. By this way i can be with my hubby whenever i want to and at d same time i can make money..plus my stress level is less since i dun have to deal with those inconsiderate people mentioned above. My business had been running for about 3 months now and so far so gud. Can't believe i can actually sell. Thanx to Allah, my hubby & family for supporting me..and also my frens & customers! =)

Feel free to visit my online blog shop at 
http://byn-boutique.blogspot.com. I hope dat someday i could open up a boutique. Aminnn...

Uncivilized

I was planning to post about how i quit my job but some uncivilized people annoyed me so much last nite that i have to say something bout them. Around 12.15 like dat..i was awakened by this loud noise..fireworksss!! Being stupid or absolutely idiots?? A few chinese at my neighbourhood started burning these fireworks and it last for almost 30 minutes..huhh..crazy! This is USJ OK..not some jungle dat u can simply do dat. Do have some respect la if ur living in a community. Who knows some1 had to wake up early in the morning for their job, school..worse klau de lil babies..or maybe some1 yg ade heart attack..x ke parah if some1 actually die bcoz of d loud noises.

Seriously it is so irritating. At times i juz wish dat whoever yg main these mercun will end up like d guy at KK. People never learn their lesson. Dah jd tragic cmtu pun they still dun even give a damn!

"Mangsa yang dikenali sebagai Shaow Yong, 26, mati di tempat kejadian pada tengah malam 23 Januari. Siasatan polis mendapati mangsa yang baru mendirikan rumah tangga dipercayai membakar dua batang mercun besar di hadapan rumahnya di Taman Seputeh, salah satu daripada mercun itu meletup serta merta dan satu tidak. Ketika mangsa memeriksa mercun yang gagal meletup, tiba-tiba mercun itu meletup di hadapan mukanya menyebabkan mangsa mengalami cedera serius di muka dan mati di tempat kejadian." - New Sabah Times -

I'm back......

Yes! I'm finally here after a long time. Dah lame x update blog..rindu la plak. I started missing blogging when i recently did blog walking to see whether teal blue & gold goes 2gether or not for my bro's wedding. Oh..yes..he's gonna get married this June! We were all surprised when we found out bout that. I'll story it later k...

Oh my..there's so many stories to tell. 2011 has its up & down..marriage life, career..I dunno which one to start..herm..I think i better give each story their own new post coz it's going to be pretty long if i fit it all in one post. From how i quit my job till me pursuing business, how my bro decided to get married, etc. Well i guess this is it for now. Happy New Year! hehe..it's not too late kn..we're still in January ;)

P.S: I will be starting my rice diet 2day. Dh chubby sgt nie. I have to loose weight!