Why so RUDE??

I don't get it why people can be so rude and have no respect towards others. What's ur problem anyway?! A few yrs back when there is a study shows dat Malaysian is d 3rd most rude people in d world..i could not believe it. How come such a peaceful country with multi-racial citizens falls in 3rd. I said to my father and he totally agreed with d study. I was shocked back then but now i 100% totally agree with him.

There's a lot of example dealing with rude people in Malaysia but let me share 2 situations dat recently happened to me. The 1st one is at KLIA. I juz had a rough flight and was still shaking fr d experience when a custom staff stop me while i was pushing my trolley heading to d exit. I dun really have problem with d others except for this one dark skin custom. She asked me questions regarding d kain dat i bought Vietnam and said dat i have to pay tax VERY RUDELY! Can't u asked nicely?? Is it so hard??? If u really desperately need dat money all u got to do is juz asked! I'm not as poor as u ok and fyi d money is not even urs. Maybe her life is so miserable dat she wanted to make my life as bad as hers. I'm in a bad mood dat nite bcoz of her smpai my fren yg keje custom gotta scolding fr me..huhu..sorry fren..

The 2nd situation happened today. Nowadays i dun have to go to Vietnam anymore to take my kain. The distributor will send me pictures of kain via email and i choose what i want. Few weeks later i will get my kain thru shipping. So i have to deal with Ocean Link in order for me to know further details on d whereabouts of my kain. I call them dis morning & their staff by d name of Dila is so rude to me. Nie lg satu behavior dat i don't understand. I'm doing business with u & dis is how u treat me?? Tau la nie bkan bapak ko punye business but respect ur customers la! X ble tnye elok2?!! I told her i dun have fax at home but she still told me to fax d invoice. X phm simple malay ke?? Our conversation after dat mmg i treat her rudely la kn. I even put down d phone before she could say anything. Then after lunch an indian staff fr d same company call..pompuan gak..asked me with a rude tone "nape x angkat telefon?". Woi! I'm outside d 1st time u call. I then answer back rudely "sy kat luar mane nk dgr!". Lpas aku dh bwat prangai br la nk baik2. Same goes with d custom above. Bole blah la with all ur shit!

I Quit!

I never thought i will finally say those words. Imagine dat i have been wanting to say I QUIT! At first i can take it eventho hard when my close fren decided to go to Sabah's branch to be with her family. The last straw dat breaks d camel's back came along when d top management gives me a hard time. They r many heads & different heads wants different result. Worse i'm d officer in charge for something i hate & not specialize in which is LAW! Yup..i was chosen to do a Rule dat will be place in an Act for d whole of Malaysia to use. Oh my..dat is so far fr my field. I have zero knowledge on dat tho people expect me to be expert in it. Lawyers at my office pun had a hard time in some of d act..what more me a statistician.

Besides work load, i also can't take it with all these drama at d office. Tau la klau work in d gov. Most of them have nothing else better to do then MENGUMPAT. When my mother told me about this, i never really expected this to be dat bad. There's 2-face people dat luv to talk bad behind ur back but a sweet talker when they're in front of u. Worst of d bunch is d backstabbers! Said dat they're my fren and alwiz had my back instead they're juz d same with d others dat talk shit bout me. I didn't do anything to them..being so nice & dats how they repay me juz bcoz of JEALOUSY?? Pathetic people..dat what they r. Seriously GET A LIFE!

Actually i'm ok with working there if i'm a permanent officer but since it's juz contract dat will be renewed every yr..i guess i juz let it go. No regrets. I should have juz do it long time ago. Is not worth especially when some PTDs have less work load but being paid more..so not fair. Well, at least i gain experience. Been there, done dat!

So now i'm a business woman. I decided when i found out dat my fren sells kain at d office and it was a big hit. Then i said to myself, why not. By this way i can be with my hubby whenever i want to and at d same time i can make money..plus my stress level is less since i dun have to deal with those inconsiderate people mentioned above. My business had been running for about 3 months now and so far so gud. Can't believe i can actually sell. Thanx to Allah, my hubby & family for supporting me..and also my frens & customers! =)

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