A Baby Boy Was Born

Adam Naqib ::: Weight: 2.8kg ::: Length: 52cm

Alhamdulillah. Keep repeating it ever since I found out I was preggy till I give birth to a healthy baby boy, Adam Naqib. Naqib means leader. He was born here at Putra Medical Centre, Sg. Buloh on 9 October 2012 at 9.35 am by c-szer. 

Yes. It was d same exact date dat me & hubby become husband & wife 2yrs ago. Miracle isn't it. Exactly 2yrs! Again..alhamdulillah..tq Allah. So next yr ble celeb8 our 3rd yr anniversary with Adam's burfday ;)

Counting Days

I'm already 39 weeks preggy but still no sign of me giving me birth..huhu..still counting days for d arrival of my precious lil' baby. Raye pun dh over..didn't even post anything bout dat. Ble je on9 but my laziness had overrule. So wishing all muslim belated hari raya & maaf zahir batin ;)

Since 36 weeks, I started staying with my hubby at KKB till this day. Miss my family & home so much. Wish I could juz stay with them but i have no say. Hubby wanted me to stay with him till I give birth & then continue until my confinement is over. Whether I like it or not..I have to obey to him kn..dosa nnti klau x follow. Anyway it's easier if i stay here. At least there's someone to take care of me eventhough at times boring sgt duk cni. I guess sometimes u juz got to sacrifice to gain something.

3 Days to Ramadhan al-Mubarak

Ramadhan is coming! My 1st time preggy during this blessed month. I really hope dat I can complete fasting 30 days without leaving any day behind..insyaAllah..aminnn..

Utk ksempatan ini, I would like to apologize to my hubby, family, in laws and frenz for any wrong doing dat I did. Also to my readers (if I still have any), I'm sorry if any of my writing in this blog may hurt ur feelings. May we all strive to do more good deeds throughout this month ;)

My Lil' Bro Is Married?!

I juz can't believe dat my brother decided to get married dis yr. Not juz me but d whole family. More surprising he proposed to someone dat he had only known for less than a month! Dat was fast..hehe..klau dh jodoh tu x ke mane. Congratz Dr Dot & Asfiya!

1 JUNE 2012: No sign of panic but deep down nobody knows ;p

2 JUNE 2012: Bride's reception at Bukit Jelutong

24 JUNE 2012: Our side at Dewan Warisan Kompleks Warga Emas

He kept saying dat he wanted to focus on collecting money first before he settle down and his target age was 30. I guess d saying 'kita mrancang, Allah yg menentukan' is so true. It's all started when they were introduced by my brother's fren who is also the girl's brother-in-law and their journey continues from there ;)

I'm Pregnant!

Alhamdulillah..after more than a yr, i'm finally pregnant! Day & nite I wish dat this would happen. I even decided to quit my job for this dream to come true. Of course many didn't agree on my decision but so what..it's my life..family is much more important than anything else. Tq Allah for answering my prayers and my hubby for supporting me all d way through ups and downs of our marriage. For this miracle to happen, both hubby & wifey play important roles and of course lots of sacrifices. 

No matter what people say..we must alwiz stick together especially mulut2 jht nie dat keep asking us..'r u pregnant yet? r u pregnant yet?' Huh! So annoying! Kite org duk jauh ok..we're not living in d same house..of course la difficult ckit. Married couple yg duk serumah pun still having a hard time after so many yrs..nie lg us yg only meet once a week and at times once a month!

There's one guy & FYI he's only a driver even questioned why am I not pregnant yet. WTH?! Rezki anak is Allah's doing ok..why must u questioned something like dat?? Like death..no one knows for sure when will they die. One of them lg la..she's not even married! Why dun u find urself a husband 1st rather than sibuk2 jage tepi kain org. Sadly even until now she's not married yet..hermmm..kesian..

Usually dis kind of thing family x ksh..others yg make things worse. What i meant by others includes sedare2 not juz frenz. Alhamdulillah my family and hubby's family didn't pressure me with all this nonsense.

Anyway my burfday was last Tuesday and I'm already 29 yrs old! Time flies for sure. One of my best burfday gift EVER is from my doctor at PPUM..a 4D scan of my baby! So grateful dat baby boo is healthy. Tq Allah..

Why so RUDE??

I don't get it why people can be so rude and have no respect towards others. What's ur problem anyway?! A few yrs back when there is a study shows dat Malaysian is d 3rd most rude people in d world..i could not believe it. How come such a peaceful country with multi-racial citizens falls in 3rd. I said to my father and he totally agreed with d study. I was shocked back then but now i 100% totally agree with him.

There's a lot of example dealing with rude people in Malaysia but let me share 2 situations dat recently happened to me. The 1st one is at KLIA. I juz had a rough flight and was still shaking fr d experience when a custom staff stop me while i was pushing my trolley heading to d exit. I dun really have problem with d others except for this one dark skin custom. She asked me questions regarding d kain dat i bought Vietnam and said dat i have to pay tax VERY RUDELY! Can't u asked nicely?? Is it so hard??? If u really desperately need dat money all u got to do is juz asked! I'm not as poor as u ok and fyi d money is not even urs. Maybe her life is so miserable dat she wanted to make my life as bad as hers. I'm in a bad mood dat nite bcoz of her smpai my fren yg keje custom gotta scolding fr me..huhu..sorry fren..

The 2nd situation happened today. Nowadays i dun have to go to Vietnam anymore to take my kain. The distributor will send me pictures of kain via email and i choose what i want. Few weeks later i will get my kain thru shipping. So i have to deal with Ocean Link in order for me to know further details on d whereabouts of my kain. I call them dis morning & their staff by d name of Dila is so rude to me. Nie lg satu behavior dat i don't understand. I'm doing business with u & dis is how u treat me?? Tau la nie bkan bapak ko punye business but respect ur customers la! X ble tnye elok2?!! I told her i dun have fax at home but she still told me to fax d invoice. X phm simple malay ke?? Our conversation after dat mmg i treat her rudely la kn. I even put down d phone before she could say anything. Then after lunch an indian staff fr d same company call..pompuan gak..asked me with a rude tone "nape x angkat telefon?". Woi! I'm outside d 1st time u call. I then answer back rudely "sy kat luar mane nk dgr!". Lpas aku dh bwat prangai br la nk baik2. Same goes with d custom above. Bole blah la with all ur shit!

I Quit!

I never thought i will finally say those words. Imagine dat i have been wanting to say I QUIT! At first i can take it eventho hard when my close fren decided to go to Sabah's branch to be with her family. The last straw dat breaks d camel's back came along when d top management gives me a hard time. They r many heads & different heads wants different result. Worse i'm d officer in charge for something i hate & not specialize in which is LAW! Yup..i was chosen to do a Rule dat will be place in an Act for d whole of Malaysia to use. Oh my..dat is so far fr my field. I have zero knowledge on dat tho people expect me to be expert in it. Lawyers at my office pun had a hard time in some of d act..what more me a statistician.

Besides work load, i also can't take it with all these drama at d office. Tau la klau work in d gov. Most of them have nothing else better to do then MENGUMPAT. When my mother told me about this, i never really expected this to be dat bad. There's 2-face people dat luv to talk bad behind ur back but a sweet talker when they're in front of u. Worst of d bunch is d backstabbers! Said dat they're my fren and alwiz had my back instead they're juz d same with d others dat talk shit bout me. I didn't do anything to them..being so nice & dats how they repay me juz bcoz of JEALOUSY?? Pathetic people..dat what they r. Seriously GET A LIFE!

Actually i'm ok with working there if i'm a permanent officer but since it's juz contract dat will be renewed every yr..i guess i juz let it go. No regrets. I should have juz do it long time ago. Is not worth especially when some PTDs have less work load but being paid more..so not fair. Well, at least i gain experience. Been there, done dat!

So now i'm a business woman. I decided when i found out dat my fren sells kain at d office and it was a big hit. Then i said to myself, why not. By this way i can be with my hubby whenever i want to and at d same time i can make money..plus my stress level is less since i dun have to deal with those inconsiderate people mentioned above. My business had been running for about 3 months now and so far so gud. Can't believe i can actually sell. Thanx to Allah, my hubby & family for supporting me..and also my frens & customers! =)

Feel free to visit my online blog shop at 
http://byn-boutique.blogspot.com. I hope dat someday i could open up a boutique. Aminnn...

Uncivilized

I was planning to post about how i quit my job but some uncivilized people annoyed me so much last nite that i have to say something bout them. Around 12.15 like dat..i was awakened by this loud noise..fireworksss!! Being stupid or absolutely idiots?? A few chinese at my neighbourhood started burning these fireworks and it last for almost 30 minutes..huhh..crazy! This is USJ OK..not some jungle dat u can simply do dat. Do have some respect la if ur living in a community. Who knows some1 had to wake up early in the morning for their job, school..worse klau de lil babies..or maybe some1 yg ade heart attack..x ke parah if some1 actually die bcoz of d loud noises.

Seriously it is so irritating. At times i juz wish dat whoever yg main these mercun will end up like d guy at KK. People never learn their lesson. Dah jd tragic cmtu pun they still dun even give a damn!

"Mangsa yang dikenali sebagai Shaow Yong, 26, mati di tempat kejadian pada tengah malam 23 Januari. Siasatan polis mendapati mangsa yang baru mendirikan rumah tangga dipercayai membakar dua batang mercun besar di hadapan rumahnya di Taman Seputeh, salah satu daripada mercun itu meletup serta merta dan satu tidak. Ketika mangsa memeriksa mercun yang gagal meletup, tiba-tiba mercun itu meletup di hadapan mukanya menyebabkan mangsa mengalami cedera serius di muka dan mati di tempat kejadian." - New Sabah Times -

I'm back......

Yes! I'm finally here after a long time. Dah lame x update blog..rindu la plak. I started missing blogging when i recently did blog walking to see whether teal blue & gold goes 2gether or not for my bro's wedding. Oh..yes..he's gonna get married this June! We were all surprised when we found out bout that. I'll story it later k...

Oh my..there's so many stories to tell. 2011 has its up & down..marriage life, career..I dunno which one to start..herm..I think i better give each story their own new post coz it's going to be pretty long if i fit it all in one post. From how i quit my job till me pursuing business, how my bro decided to get married, etc. Well i guess this is it for now. Happy New Year! hehe..it's not too late kn..we're still in January ;)

P.S: I will be starting my rice diet 2day. Dh chubby sgt nie. I have to loose weight!

Happy 28th Burfday

Pejam celik pejam celik..i'm already 28 yrs old! Wow..c how time flies!! Dis yr..special ckit. For d 1st time, I get to spend my burfday with 2 families..mine & hubby's.

Ystrday my father brought me & my twin to TGIF @ Subang Parade for our pre-burfday dinner. Oh my..guess what?! My twin pun celeb8 her burfday dis yr as a married woman..huhu..best2..

2day plak i went back to KKB. Celeb8 burfday kat cni plak..by my hubby's side. Supposingly 2nite my father nk belanje at dis new Bali Restaurant @ Damansara but then hubby x larat coz td mandi kat sg. pertak. My MIL plak went fishing! Huhu..i didn't know dat she luvs fishing. She didn't catch any fish tho instead hubby's cousin caught one. Finally..after 2-3 hours! =)

At nite hubby bring me to Batang Kali for my burfday dinner @ Isma Seafood. Service dia mmg out bcoz lmbt giler but then d fud taste amazing! I will come & eat there again for sure.

So happy i get to spend my burfday with my family especially my twin & also hubby..dua2 dpt..sgt seronok. I dun need expensive gifts..all i need is luv! Hopefully next yr celeb8 dgn baby plak. Aminnn...

HAPPY BURFDAY TO ONE & ONLY, ME!

My Twin Is Married Too!

Hello bloggie!! Long time no see..hehe..oh my..there's so many things to update but i'm sooo lazy to type or even switching on my lappie. Wish dat i could have some1 to type it for me or better to have a lappie dat can type automatically what ever i was thinking..=p

1st of all i would like to say congratz to my twin eventho it had been almost a month she'd been married..huhu..wlcome to d club sis! Last 6th of May, my twin is officially d wife to Muadz whom she met less than a yr! They knew each other fr a mutual fren thru d process of taaruf which simply meant introduction or perkenalan. It is actually a process of knowing each other more closely but with d presence of family members.

6 MAY 2011: Jannah & Muadz

I did follow her around during her prep for her wed. She had choosen a WP fr Rawang dat will handle everything fr d wedding dress to d doorgifts juz like during my wed. Only 1 person in charge of everything..she wanted dat way coz it's easier..but definitely not d same WP as mine!

Fitting time..

Her big day was held at d PKNS Hall @ Kelana Jaya on d 7th of May. There's ample of parking plus a VIP room with air-cond & TV. Unfortunately..there's another wedding right in front of d gate..hermmm..so some of our guest mistakenly went to dat wedding..huhu..but they finally realized they're at d wrong place when they noticed d banner..aiyak..muke lain!

7 MAY 2011: Family pic!

Glad to see dat our family gathered 2gether on dis special day. Eventho my mother's not around..they did their best so dat my twin's wed is as close as perfect. Tho i do wish dat my mother is still alive..it's so sad dat she can't make it to dis day..='(

Items For Sale

Hye there! I wanted to sell some of my wedding stuff to b2b out there or any1 who wishes to buy 'em. Took me quite a while to finally decide on this since every item is so precious & memorable to me..huhu...

Ok then..we start with my nikah kurung..

...black and white modern kurung...

...top...

...as u can see..lining only kat tangan...

...the kain...

...close-up...

...back view...

PRICE : RM 350 (including postage)
+ a black tudung for free!

...front...

...back...

Next, a white selendang..

PRICE : RM200 (including postage)

The only outfit fr my hubby..his baju melayu songket...

...baju...

...pants...

...these is also included in d package...


...and this...

...men wear it on d outside of d baju melayu...

...my cute model...=)

PRICE : RM850 (including postage)

Last but not least my grey wedding gown...

...d dress as a whole...

...close-up top...

...close-up - view fr d back...
+
+
...shoe & tudung for free!

PRICE : RM480 (including postage)

I'm also selling my doorgift. Since there's a lot more fr my wedding..so why not sell 'em to others.

Total : 272

PRICE : RM2 each
(these u'll have to take it by urself at my house...risau pecah kn klau by post...)

I've been longing to do this but i dun have d time. During weekdays is work! work! work! Weekends plak family! family! family! So br 2day i got d chance to slip my way promoting my wedding stuff.

If ur interested..do email me at

bnj_gurl@yahoo.com

TQ FOR UR TIME & HAVE A GREAT DAY!

Item For Rent

I'm renting dis wooden hantaran trays dat i used for my wedding. I have a total of 7 & renting it for only RM12 each.

Any1 interested, do email me at
bnj_gurl@yahoo.com

THANX!

Serves U Right!

Guess what?! My WP make it to Harian Metro not once but TWICE! The 1st appearance was told by mother's fren. It's so surprising dat he had been cheating more than 20 b2b for almost 6 yrs & no one had ever step up to inform d public till recently.

"Penganjur perkahwinan gagal menyediakan pakej dijanjikan menyebabkan pelanggannya bukan saja kerugian puluhan ribu ringgit, tetapi turut menanggung malu Salah seorang mangsa berkata, "Tiada apa yang dapat dilakukan saya dan keluarga ketika itu kerana masa terlalu suntuk. Akibatnya, pada hari perkahwinan saya, kami sekeluarga hanya memberi minuman dan makanan ringan kepada tetamu."

See how evil people can b juz to b rich. He's so heartless and only thinks about himself & dun even care d consequences his clients will face later on. Dgr pn sakit hati kn. Luckily for me, at least he showed up with my wedding dress & pelamin plus i dun take catering fr him. If not, i'll b wearing t-shirt & jeans as well as serving my guest with KFC..huhu..

Con man Azhari aka Azlin

Few days after dat, another news about him came up. This time it was told by my hubby. Alhamdulillah, he was finally caught at a home in Selayang..haha..padan muke! I'll bet every1 dat he cheated can't wait to punch him on d face! =D

"Perunding perkahwinan `walimatul tak urus' yang penipuannya didedahkan Harian Metro pada 2 Mac lalu, dicekup polis dalam tempoh hanya tiga hari selepas kisahnya disiarkan. Kes penipuan itu disiasat mengikut Seksyen 420 Kanun Keseksaan dan polis kini menunggu arahan mahkamah untuk mendakwa suspek kerana menipu."

Our Honeymoon

Me & hubby like most newly weds in Malaysia went to Langkawi for our honeymoon. We stayed there fr 19th till 22nd of Oct. Thanx to my parents for sponsoring our honeymoon which is d best wedding present given to us..=D

by Firefly

It is not a problem for me & my family whenever we go to Langkawi in terms of logistic. There will alwiz b a place to stay coz my parents bought 1 of d room in Langkawi Lagoon Resort. It's spacious & can fit up to four person. Kitchen is also included.

Juz arrived - Enjoying our welcoming drinks

Places dat we went to while we're in Langkawi...

...Pantai Chenang...

...Beras Tbakar...

...only till here..can't afford to walk much further...

...Telaga 1...

...Petronas Quay...

...Makam Mahsuri...

...Dataran Lang...

...shopping souveniers for my family & frenz...

...Langkawi Lagoon...

Review : Catering

The 2 things dat were not included in Lin's package are d door gifts & catering..thank God for dat! Actually Lin lured us in taking catering too but my parents insisted in having Hj Ahmad Catering bcoz they had been with us since my engagement day. The fud mmg sedap..no doubt about it. Price pun reasonable. Since my parents is their loyal customer..they usually gave us extra in terms of fud for d guest & sometimes complimentary gift like dis wedding cake...

The theme for my wedding is black so i wanted my drinks to b black as well during reception & i got it..Hj Ahmad provide us with cordial root beer..cheers! Hehe..i dun think other catering will opt to dat request.

Everything is so delicious fr d rice to all d lauks. The dessert..YUMMY! For my reception d dessert is bubur pulut hitam & i dun get to taste it..uwaaaaa...!! Every1 said dat it is nice & d best they ever tasted! Even my dessert is black..=p

Review : Wedding Planner

My wedding planner is Azlin or Lin fr Ratu Sehari. I forgot his real name..Azrul i think. This nyah claim to b a neurosurgeon. Can't believe i fell for it! He was introduced by Along, my mother's staff at d office. According to Along, Lin did a wonderful job for d wedding of my mother's director niece. Unfortunately it seem to b d opposite for us.

He kept asking for money eventho we couldn't see d outcome of it. His laim reason is dat he dun have enuff money to buy all d materials. Bullshit! Xkn xde modal..kata neurosurgeon! We all follow je his flow to d point dat mother could not stand anymore & say dat she will lodge a police report if he continue to behave like this. After dat br nmpk ckit where d money goes.

My package under Azlin Ratu Sehari:

1. Wedding card

2. New wedding dress for nikah, small brinai & reception (plus accessories, veil & shoes)

3. Make-up 3x

4. Pelamin dewan 3 panel (artificial flower)

5. Hand bouquet (fresh flower)

6. 2 bunting & 1 banner

7. Deco hantaran (fresh flower)

8. Deco bilik pgantin (fresh flower)

9. 2 Canopy for reception

10. Arch

11. Wedding cake

12. Photographer

13. Videographer

My package with Lin is actually inclusive of door gift for 1500 pax. Since d price is too expensive & totally not worth it..so we decided to buy our own. Dats why br 1 day before nikah dpt door gift! Lucky us ade 1 shop selling wedding stuff at Chow Kit Road. My mother's cousin yg bgtau..never thought dat ade wedding shop kat ctu..

List of his work dat i hated:

• Both my nikah kurung & wedding dress for d reception xde lining eventho i repeatedly say kna ade lining bcoz i'm wearing tudung..

• Some of d flowers for my hand bouquet dh layu even on d 1st day & i dun ask for PEARLS!
  

• For my hand bouquet, i want it to b wrap with a simple black satin ribbon but NOPE! He did it his way..
  

• I only see & get to wear my wedding gown on d big day itself! Giler! Xde fitting!!

• Pelamin only siap late nite before d big day! So i dun have d chance to criticise his work..

• I dun like d butterflies at my pelamin..since when did i tell him dat i one butterflies..as what i remembered..XDE PUN! Memandai je ek..

• Specifically told him dat i only want black & white for my wedding cake..NO any other color but *BAM* there's even green!

• I want my wedding cake to b as simple as possible..juz 3 layers with a simple black ribbon but then AGAIN..ikut suke hati dia je!

• The bunting is damn ugly! It's so clear keje org malas..
  

My advise to every b2b out there dun ever take Lin as ur wedding planner. He is based in Selayang fr what i've been told by my MUA. Caution to b taken here is to go to ur wedding planner's boutique & see for urself whether d boutique exist.

We alwiz discuss at home bcoz my mother is not well. Mmg snang..mother can also join d discussion but u urself have to take d initiative to check whether ur wedding planner is telling d truth or not. I admit it's my fault dat i concentrate so much on my work rather than my own wedding Eventho my mother insisted dat Lin should b my wedding planner..i should take d blame.

My wedding is not all dat bad pun. Behind d scene mmg kecoh ckit but fr d eyes of our guest dat came..everything is juz fine. Alhamdulillah with d help of so many people..my wedding goes on as planned. A big thank u to my family for making my big day came true and also not to forget d staff of MKM dat carry d burden 2gether with us in having dis event of a lifetime.